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they/them

not so secretly obsessed with some gays

your local ND cripple-punk

I AM TRANS IF YOU’RE A TERF I HOPE YOU BURN ALIVE FUCK OFF MY PAGE

skepticalfrog:

if that wasnt clear enough: if you are a radfem, if you interact with radfems, if you think terfs arent ‘that bad’ and they ‘have some good points’, if youre not a terf or a radfem or whatever but you don’t mind them interacting with you, if you let that shit into your circle, if you think that you can make any sweeping statements about trans women, if you think you can divide your enjoyment of fan content from your beliefs that trans people are Bad for the world…. do not follow me, do not interact with me, do not push yourself into spaces where you have to hide these beliefs because you KNOW you would be ostracised if you were open about them. you dont get to protect yourself from ostracisation!!!!!!! 

nonstopfandomposts:

I hope all wga and sag ppl the best and I wish them a very enthusiastic please remember to put on sunscreen and stay hyrdated thank you

anarchywoofwoof:

my dear babies who grew up with undiagnosed adhd who are now medicated adults and still struggling, this ones for you.

let me give you a cute tip ok? ready?

you don’t have to do things as fast as possible

ok i know that this is jarring to read, but stay with me. you may be having the realization at this very moment that every single task that you have ever undertaken in your life, your goal was to complete it as quickly as you possibly could. and maybe you’re medicated now or maybe you aren’t. but this has always been your philosophy.

this is not actually necessary and not how neurotypical people view things like tasks or responsibilities

a real life example of how this information has changed the way that i behave and has had a positive effect on my mental health:

i noticed that when getting ready to take my dog for a walk, my primary goal has always been to get the harness and leash on her and get out the door as quickly as i can. for no reason other than i was lead to believe as a kid that faster = efficient = better. however, there are other factors, such as: i sweat very easily and moving around at a fast pace trying to collect all of the things i need to rush out the door exacerbates this. these combination of factors results in me getting highly irritable and overstimulated.

i later realized that this is the way that i get ready to leave the house no matter what i am doing

now, when i am getting ready to take my dog for a walk, i purposefully do everything at half speed. i gather stuff slower. i move through the house slower. i put the harness on slower. i clip the leash slower. i open the door slower. i make a conscious effort to do everything almost in a way that feels like slow motion to me.

and you know what? applying this behavior to almost every single task or activity that i have to do results in me having a significant magnitude less anxiety than if i am in my usual “do this task as if you are racing against an invisible clock” state of mind.

the old saying “slow down to speed up” is quite poignant when it comes to dealing with neurodivergency, especially adhd. even if you’re medicated, you may still be consistently making mistakes because you’re probably still moving with a level of urgency that is unwarranted. you’re not in a race. it’s ok to do things using inefficient methods, especially if it is a benefit to your mental well-being.

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liminalweirdo:

okay yeah this is the least accessible this website has ever been. i can’t even process everything on my screen, i’m going to cry. i used to like coming on tumblr but now it literally hurts my head just to look at everything and try to fucking process all this junk that staff’s thrown up on all sides of the posts. you can’t even let me minimize the left sidebar @staff @wip

you say you want to support your users but you’re literally squeezing your users out of the picture. i can’t even see the posts on my dash, they’re so small.

truly this is horrible and way too overstimulating for people who are ND. this fucking sucks.

hellyeahscarleteen:

Sex and Disability

Disabled Sex Yes!
Being disabled doesn't mean you can't have a rewarding and awesome sex life.
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This Disability Pride Month, check out our series on Sex and Disability! This isn’t meant to be a be-all-end-all guide to sex and disability because a) it’s not, and b) there just can’t ever be such a thing with any guide to sex. This series, much like your entire sexual life, is a work in progress and an endless, ongoing conversation. We hope this can be a good place for you to get started, and something that starts you on the path of good feelings about sex and your disability. Read the introduction above, or skip to one of the sections below:

Taking Your Body for a Ride: Masturbation and Disability

Disabled Sex: Sex for Two (or More)

Consent Is Sexy: Sexual Autonomy and Disability

Sex on the Brain: Sex and Autism, Mental Illness, and Other Cognitive Diversity

Your Body is Not a Sex Object: Devotees and Disability

Wheelchair, Bound? Kink and Disability

I Beg Your Pardon? Dealing with Rude Nondisableds

(Check out the rest of our disability-focused content here)

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